Intimacy

Just a quick note on intimacy. I came across this quote while browsing through instagram and it totally fits where I stand on intimacy.

For the longest time I felt resistance in letting people in. I'd let them in as long as it served my purpose, creating a false sense of openness. Intimacy to me became currency in a strategic game of command and conquer.

It's something I taught myself as a kid. To protect myself from elder siblings and in friendships, as I was too insecure to realise that true intimacy, honesty and openness were no weaknesses.

In fact I just came to realise this a few months ago and I still find myself struggling in keeping an open mind at times.

I do know this though. Whenever I do open up to people and they open up to me I feel truly connected. And the strength of that connection is something I long for and with me a lot of other people.

So, please consider this as a guideline in meeting new people: intimacy is no currency nor a weapon. It is no weakness, but rather a strength. Whenever a person opens up to you, don't take it lightly and always be thankful. Thankful for the trust you are granted to look into someone's soul. Thankful for receiving faith in your goodwill.

Thank you and see you on the flipside!

B. P.